Tag Archives: lesbian family

Dispatch from the Gender-Bending Wars

Posted on May 26, 2011 by Kate Christie

One thing about parenting: Carrying a cute baby out in the public sphere garners far more smiles than I’m used to receiving after twenty years as a gender non-conforming lesbian. My short hair and purposely androgynous clothing–I’m small enough that … Continue reading →

Posted in Family, Gender, LGBT rights, Non-Biological Motherhood, Parenting | Tagged babies, baby gender, childbirth, domestic partner, family, gay family, gender nonconformity, gender rules, girl babies, lesbian, lesbian family, lesbian mom, LGBT parenting, LGBT rights, newborn, non-bio mom | 3 Comments

Love Thy Neighbor

Posted on May 3, 2011 by Kate Christie

Last year, our development decided to change the way our mail gets delivered. As a result, we now have cluster boxes. This presents a challenge anytime a substitute delivery person is called in–many of us have addresses that are identical except … Continue reading →

Posted in DOMA, Family, LGBT rights, Non-Biological Motherhood, Parenting | Tagged Amy Ray, Christian fundamentalism, family, Focus on the Family, gay family, good Christians, hate mail, lesbian family, lesbian mom, Let it Ring, LGBT parenting, LGBT rights, neighbors, non-bio mom, right wing | 1 Comment

Priceless

Posted on March 20, 2011 by Kate Christie

This morning, I rolled over in bed, glanced at the bedside clock, and did the calculation that has become my post-birth morning ritual—six and a half hours of sleep. This is my record so far, made possible by the fact … Continue reading →

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A Company of Women

Posted on March 7, 2011 by Kate Christie

Birth Junkies and the Not-So-Junkied A few weeks ago I blogged about the changes to Washington state birth certificates that would allow my name to go on our daughter’s birth certificate as a “natural” parent from day one. Well, that … Continue reading →

Posted in DOMA, Family, LGBT rights, Non-Biological Motherhood, Parenting | Tagged birth certificate, childbirth, defense of marriage, DOMA, domestic partner, family, gay family, gay marriage, lesbian family, lesbian mom, LGBT, LGBT parenting, LGBT rights, non-bio mom, parental rights, Smith College | 4 Comments

The Sporty Lesbian Non-Newlywed Game

Posted on February 15, 2011 by Kate Christie

The other night, in honor of Valentine’s Day, I was interviewed on an internet radio show along with three other lesbian/ bisexual romance writers. During the course of the show, a listener wrote in to ask if I planned to have … Continue reading →